The Power of Small Moments and How Counselling Helps You Notice These
- Tony Waddington
- Aug 13
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 4
We often think of happiness as a grand event: the dream house, the big holiday, the promotion, the wedding, or a once-in-a-lifetime milestone. But, as the saying goes,
“Happiness is not just one day. It’s in the little moments every day.”
At Stone in My Boot, we believe therapy and counselling can help you tune into these everyday joys, even when life feels heavy, overwhelming, or both.

The Power of Small Moments
When you are caught in cycles of stress, burnout, or anxiety, it is easy to overlook the small things that make life meaningful. A walk in fresh air, a warm conversation with a friend, a shared laugh with a loved one, a home-cooked meal with family, or even the simple act of grabbing coffee from your favourite spot in town can bring joy. Personal counselling helps slow down the noise created by anxiety, depression, trauma, and social pressures. It allows you to rediscover and fully live in those moments that bring balance and calm.
How Counselling Supports This Shift
Through therapy, you begin to:
Notice your thought patterns and how they affect your wellbeing.
Reframe challenges so they don’t overshadow your day.
Create space to enjoy little rituals like a cup of tea in the morning, a mindful breath, or a pause to appreciate nature.
At Stone in My Boot, our one-to-one counselling sessions are designed to support you in building resilience. We gently shift focus from what drains you to what sustains you. Our counselling services are online-based, allowing you to join from the comfort of your home and around your busy schedule. Explore our counselling services here.
Everyday Joy as a Form of Healing
Therapy and counselling don’t erase difficulties. Instead, they provide tools to meet them while still finding light in the small things. Over time, daily moments of connection, calm, and self-kindness build a stronger foundation of wellbeing. When you’re struggling with low mood, constant worry, or the heaviness of burnout, it can feel impossible to notice anything beyond the weight of those emotions.
Counselling creates a safe space to explore mental health challenges and slowly shift perspective. By learning how to pause, reflect, and reconnect, you can begin to notice smaller, grounding moments like a deep breath, a friendly smile, or even just the comfort of silence. Over time, these practices build coping mechanisms that bring steadiness in the face of stress, grief, and uncertainty.
Through therapy, many people living with depression, grief, or social anxiety discover that everyday joys, however small, can act as anchors. These moments don’t erase the pain, but they gently remind you that your life is more than your struggles. When cultivated consistently, they form a stronger foundation of wellbeing, helping you move towards a life where calm, connection, confidence, and self-kindness are within reach.

Begin Your Journey
If you are ready to discover happiness in the everyday and begin your journey towards a healthier, calmer state of mental wellbeing, counselling could be the first step. Our online therapy and counselling sessions are here to support you, no matter what stage of life you are in or what weighs heavy on your mind. Whether you are navigating stress, burnout, grief, depression, or personal transitions, we will walk alongside you as you rediscover joy in life’s little moments.
Join us to begin your positive mental health journey today. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram for a daily dose of positivity.
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